*Side note, yay first blog of 2010**
I have a friend, who is a mother (which I just kinda found out lol) and who no doubt is a great mother. She was going to adopt a child so that her current child who just had a birthday could have a younger sister. I got a few updates about this happening just recently, she found out however that woman that she was adopting from had the baby earlier; and never told her even though Im under the impression that they had an agreement to do so. Understandably, she is upset because the girl didn't tell her that she had the baby, another day goes by; she tells me that she found out that the girl had the baby for a week on facebook ( how messed up is that?) and she claims that she spoke to her after the fact; yet another day passes; so today I hear that she has worked out all the issues and is able to pick up her new daughter from the hospital from the other family. Im happy for her.. I hear however a few hours later that the family of the mother who is giving up the baby stepped in and is blocking the adoption because my friend is gay....
Now Im truly confused because im under the impression when you adopt they would already kinda know your business. I mean she already has a child, which im under the impression that she adopted; and as far as i know is a damn good mother so what is the problem?? I really don't get it, i mean if you are going to adopt then, they interview you to see if you are a fit parent and your living conditions are ok and everything. If being gay is the ONLY thing that is stopping some one from being a parent then that's a fucking shame, one has NOTHING to do with the other. Being gay isn't an excuse for someone to not be a parent, I just don't understand why STUPID folks would use that as an excuse. I don't get it, because if you've adopted before, and the folks you've dealt with have said that you are a fit person to be a parent then what the hell is the problem! I swear my heart broke for her even though it was a text message, I could tell she was so upset, I cant believe that people would put other people through sooo much to adopt a child who just wants parents who love them.
I have no idea what the situation is now, but i hope that they all figure that out since this poor child is in the middle.
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I was watching tv before like earlier in the day and I've kept wondering WHY THE HELL IS EVERY ONE GETTING A REALITY SHOW? I mean there are desperate people that are on vh1 (thank you flavor flav...bastard!) that whore them selves out, all the time; so that their 14:59 doesn't run out! But then we have to deal with all the krap on mtv, and then these teens in the middle of nowhere; with a camera crew,talking about how their life in the mid-west is soooooooooooooooooo hard. I cant, and how much highschool life is sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo hard as well, Its just one interchangeable teen after another. The "other reality shows" are so horrid-ly done that we all know that its no where near real.. I refuse to watch the city, but know someone who does, and we talk about how "hard life is on the upper east/west side" how one of the girls gets a job in a fashion house "just because shes that good"---**side eye** We all know that she is there just because the camera crew is there, and the real folks are busy in the back working wayyy too hard.
2009 was the year of camera's being up your ass! I know a guy at my job who wants to be famous, but at what cost? He's trying to change his name, even though its still the same just shorter, (i still don't get it LOL) but he doesn't work. I mean how does that work?? Work folks lol
I wanna write more, but I finally got a meee day tomorrow so that's all...........for now :)
